Napoleon: Obssesive?

In my opinion Napoleon was not obsessed with his wife Josephine, he was simply upset because she was being so indifferent and distant. Automatically Napoleon begins to assume that she is having an affair instead of asking her politely what is going on. Napoleon may say she is his motivation for the war but in my opinion the truth is that what motivates him to win the wars is his love and desire for power and recognition and Josephine is simply one more of his trophies and proof that Napoleon is number one. So Napoleon is obsessed but not with his wife.